Since there are some new eyes perusing all this self-indulgent excess verbiage, I think I should take a minute to mention filters again.

I filter posts relating to BDSM/sex, polyamory, generally personal things, girl stuff, and things involving pets. I also make quite a few general "Friends Only" posts that include everyone on my Flist. Everything else is usually left unlocked.

If you want to be included in any of these filters, let me know.

Do be aware that if I don't know you very well, or if we've not met in an environment that makes me inclined to believe that we share a common respect for one another's kinks/privacy, I may not add you to certain groups. Also... Guys/men/those who identify as male-type-folks: You are not in the Girls Only group. If you identify as female and I am aware of this, you're in the group. If you're TG and "undeclared," for lack of a more PC term, rattle my cage and indicate if you'd like to be included. (I'm only being picky about this filter because I don't want to get boy-germs on my girlie posts. :P )

I'm screening all replies, so if you're new/ish and want to be in on some of these groups, say so. By the same token--if you're reading things that make your eyes bleed and the screaming just won't stop, say the word and I'll take you out of any groups that aren't working for you.

So, now's your chance. What do you want to see?

EDIT: "Screening" replies means that only I can see what you've written, unless I choose to "unscreen" it. Just make sure to say whether you:
A.) want your reply left private, or
B.) are okay with it being made public.